{"id":10764,"date":"2021-01-15T11:17:48","date_gmt":"2021-01-15T17:17:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.uwsp.edu\/cps\/?p=10764"},"modified":"2021-03-30T09:01:55","modified_gmt":"2021-03-30T14:01:55","slug":"right-or-wrong-but-never-in-doubt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.uwsp.edu\/cps\/2021\/01\/15\/right-or-wrong-but-never-in-doubt\/","title":{"rendered":"Right or Wrong, but Never in Doubt"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.uwsp.edu\/cps\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/kevinile202101a.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.uwsp.edu\/cps\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/kevinile202101a-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-10766\" width=\"265\" height=\"360\" \/><\/a><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Reality hits us all a little differently; it sneaks up on us, waits until we feel comfortable or sheltered, and when we least expect it, we\u2019re jarred by new information (or better put, the realization we lack information others already have). If you\u2019re anything like me\u2013and I\u2019m a little different\u2013I can admit it, you find comfort and shelter in confidence, being precise and ultimately, being correct.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ve been blessed to have several invaluable relationships with mentors since I first moved to Stevens Point in 2015. From each mentor, I learned one thing, two things or a lot of things. Some teaching moments are calculated, most are spontaneous. As much as I enjoyed my time in undergrad at UW-Stevens Point, there are some things you just cannot learn or experience in a structured, stereotypical classroom setting. But to be fair, there are things that would be difficult to learn <em>outside<\/em> of the classroom as well. However, spending time with someone, in the workplace for example, that truly cares about your development and success and offers advice openly and willingly can change the trajectory of how you view yourself and well, reality. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s\npretty incredible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Over the past month or so, I\u2019ve been able to work closely with a co-worker that I hadn\u2019t been able to prior. This co-worker has experience in several different fields and has worked in all sorts of capacities in cities across the country. Every day\u2013and I do mean every day\u2013he tells me at least one story about an experience that he had that either frustrated him, made him want to try something new or forced him to adapt after learning new information.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One day last week, we were discussing a project both of us were working on and I expressed a lack of confidence in a particular part of the project. The lack of confidence didn\u2019t stem at all from any of his or my own doing or ability to do\u2013it was simply a matter-of-fact part of the project we had to deal with. He said something that I\u2019ve spent enough time thinking about to at least make me want to write about it:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignright is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.uwsp.edu\/cps\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/kevinile202101b.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.uwsp.edu\/cps\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/kevinile202101b-565x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-10765\" width=\"265\" height=\"480\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.uwsp.edu\/cps\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/kevinile202101b-565x1024.jpg 565w, https:\/\/blog.uwsp.edu\/cps\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/kevinile202101b-165x300.jpg 165w, https:\/\/blog.uwsp.edu\/cps\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/kevinile202101b-768x1392.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blog.uwsp.edu\/cps\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2021\/01\/kevinile202101b.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 265px) 100vw, 265px\" \/><\/a><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><em>\u201cRight or\nwrong, but never in doubt.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Seven small words and one massive statement. He went on to elaborate that there\u2019s only a certain amount of information that we have access to at any given point and we must act with the realization that confidence drives action. Our drive to be great isn\u2019t hampered by being wrong, it\u2019s only shaken by acting without truth and credence; a lesson I want to continually remind myself moving forward and I would encourage you to do the same.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ve been blessed to experience realizations like these not only at Prevail Bank, but also in the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.uwsp.edu\/mba\">UW-Stevens Point MBA program<\/a>. Earlier, I strategically said undergrad courses have limitations, not all university courses. Entering the UWSP MBA program, I wasn\u2019t necessarily looking for a mentor because although I heard everyone needed one, I didn\u2019t really know I genuinely <em>needed<\/em> one or two or 10. I entered the program looking for information, the right answers and direction. What I left with was mentors that offered a ton of information, answers that I struggled with finding on my own, and direction I didn\u2019t know I needed. It\u2019s difficult to fit the effect a program can have on a person onto a brochure or social media ad, especially one I struggle with explaining myself. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Either way, I would just ask you to examine your own confidence, your own reality and your own truth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-media-text alignwide has-very-dark-gray-background-color is-stacked-on-mobile\" style=\"grid-template-columns:31% auto\"><figure class=\"wp-block-media-text__media\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" src=\"http:\/\/blog.uwsp.edu\/cps\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2020\/06\/IleKevin.jpg\" alt=\"Kevin Ile\" class=\"wp-image-10232\" \/><\/figure><div class=\"wp-block-media-text__content\">\n<p class=\"has-text-color has-background has-small-font-size has-luminous-vivid-amber-color has-very-dark-gray-background-color\">After earning a bachelor\u2019s degree in business administration, Kevin Ile &#8217;19, MBA &#8217;20 served as a graduate assistant for the University of Wisconsin-Stevens Point <a href=\"https:\/\/www.uwsp.edu\/mba\">MBA program<\/a>. Since completing the program, Kevin has advanced into a commercial lender role with Peoples State Bank in Wausau, Wisconsin. He can be contacted at\u00a0<a href=\"mailto:kevin.ile@bankpeoples.com\">kevin.ile@bankpeoples.com<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Reality hits us all a little differently; it sneaks up on us, waits until we feel comfortable or sheltered, and when we least expect it, we\u2019re jarred by new information (or better put, the realization we lack information others already have). 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